If you’ve been planning a wedding, you’ve probably seen the words candid and posed used to describe photography styles but in reality, the line between them is a lot more fluid than most people think.
After photographing weddings since 2012, I’ve learned that the best galleries aren’t built on choosing one or the other. They’re built on understanding timing, emotion, and when to step in versus when to step back.
For me, it has never been about producing a “perfectly posed” gallery. It’s about documenting a wedding day in a way that feels real when you look back at it years later.
Candid photography is often misunderstood as simply “photos without posing,” but it goes much deeper than that.
To me, candid photography is about capturing the emotional truth of a moment. It’s the images that bring you right back into how something felt.
That might look like:
These are the moments I live for as a photographer.
Weddings are one of the only times in your life where all of your favorite people from different chapters are in the same room. That alone changes the emotional weight of the day.
My approach is to step into the role of a fly on the wall during these moments. I’m constantly observing, anticipating, and allowing space for things to unfold naturally without interruption.
Because those are the images that don’t just show what your wedding looked like—they show what it felt like.

Posed photography tends to lean more structured and directed. These are the images where there is clear guidance on placement, posture, and composition.
In a wedding gallery, this usually includes:
These images absolutely have their place. They serve as timeless documentation of the people who showed up to celebrate your marriage, and they give families portraits they’ll cherish for generations.
Even though my work leans heavily candid, I still value these moments deeply.
They create:
The key is not letting these moments take over the entire experience of the day.

Most of my work lives in what I would call prompted photography. This is the middle ground where direction exists, but it never feels stiff or forced.
Instead of rigid posing, I give my couples movement, energy, or a simple idea to work with.
That might sound like:
The goal of prompting is not to create a performance. It’s to create comfort.
Once couples have something to do, they stop thinking about the camera. And in that space, their real personalities come through.
That’s where the magic happens—the in-between moments:
Those are the images that feel alive.

One of the most important parts of my job is reading the room. I pay close attention to body language, facial expressions, and overall energy throughout the day.
I can usually tell very quickly when:
That awareness allows me to adapt without interrupting the flow of the day.
My approach is always a balance between direction and observation.
I step in when:
I step back when:
Family portraits are often the part of the day where energy dips the most—not because people don’t care, but because everyone is excited to get back to celebrating.
My approach is to keep this part:
I lean into humor, I find the people who naturally bring energy to the group, and I keep things moving without stress. The goal is always to get people back to enjoying the wedding as quickly as possible.
Most couples come to me saying the same thing in different ways:
“I love how you capture joy.”
“We want photos that feel like us.”
They don’t want their wedding day to feel like a production.
They want to:
That alignment is really important to me, because my entire approach is built around experience first, photos second.

When I first started photographing weddings in high school, everything was about capturing what was happening in front of me in the most honest way possible.
Over time, especially with the rise of social media, weddings became more curated. There was more pressure for perfection, more shot lists, and more focus on recreating specific images seen online.
But recently, I’ve seen a shift back toward something more meaningful.
More and more couples are choosing to:
And honestly, that shift changes everything.
Looking back at years of weddings, the images that hold the most emotional weight are almost always candid.
Not because posed portraits don’t matter, but because candid images carry feeling. They hold energy. They bring people back to a specific moment in time.
That’s what lasts.
Candid and posed photography aren’t opposites. They’re simply different tools used to tell the story of a wedding day.
For me, the priority will always be the same:
To document the day in a way that feels honest, emotional, and true to the couple experiencing it.
Not a production or a performance. Just real life, unfolding exactly as it is.
And that’s what makes the images worth keeping forever.
Does this resonate with you? Do you want wedding photography that you can feel? Send me a message to see if your wedding date is available! 🙂
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